Kink rentals & BDSM stays in the United States

In the United States, a kink stay rarely looks like a hotel room. What you find instead are private houses, cabins and suites whose owners have fitted out one or several rooms for play, then opened them to guests. They are rented whole: the house, the kitchen and the playroom are yours for the night, and nobody else is staying there.

The country is huge and these places are few and far apart, so the stay comes first and the trip is built around it: a city break, a drive into the woods, a long weekend with the playroom as the main event. The list at the top of this page shows every one we have verified, with its state and the gear installed.

Search for a BDSM hotel near you and you will mostly find clubs, dungeons that host parties, and studios rented by the hour, and most of them are not places to sleep. The stays on this page are the other kind: somewhere you check in, spend the night and wake up, with the cross or the sling in the next room.

To see which one is closest, open the near me page or sort the list above by "Nearest to me": your browser shares your position and every stay comes with its distance in a straight line. By road, add a good margin. You can also filter the American stays by gear and price.

Most searches name a state: a BDSM cabin in Texas, a kink house in Florida, a bondage room in California, a dungeon rental in Utah, Arizona or Oregon. The answer changes as hosts join the map, so the list above is the reliable one: it shows every verified stay in the country with its town and state, and it updates itself when a new one is added.

If your state has nothing yet, sort the list by "Nearest to me" to find the closest stay, and plan it as a destination rather than a weekend nearby. We only add an American stay once we have checked that it exists, that it can be booked and that the gear is really there, so some states stay empty for a while.

If you host a kink-friendly house, cabin or suite in any state, tell us about it.

American kink stays are adults-only and private: you are not sharing the playroom with other guests. Each host sets house rules on guests, noise and the use of the furniture, and you accept them when you book, so read them first. Rates are in dollars and change with the season, the day of the week and the length of stay; on rental platforms, cleaning fees and taxes are often added at checkout.

The exact address is usually sent once the booking is confirmed, which is part of the discretion hosts promise. Expect to be asked for a photo ID, and sometimes a security deposit. The gear on each page was checked against the listing; if one piece is the reason you are coming, ask the host before you book.