Kink hotels, BDSM suites & dungeon hire in the UK

Britain has a long and well-organised fetish scene, with clubs, munches and big themed nights in most cities. Places to stay are another matter. A kink stay is not a club night: it is a room or a house you book for yourselves, with the cross, the cage or the sling a few steps from the bed, and nobody else around.

They are run by independent owners rather than hotel chains, and each one is different: an adults-only hotel with several themed rooms, a suite fitted out around a single playroom, a whole house booked for the night. The list above shows what each stay has. If one piece is the reason you are coming, ask the host before you book.

Adults-only hotels with themed rooms

Hotels that only take adults, with rooms decorated around a theme and furnished for play: a St. Andrew's cross, a sex swing, a bondage bed, a ceiling mirror. You check in like at any hotel, and the room is yours for the night.

Kink suites and party houses

Private suites or whole houses with a fully equipped playroom: cage, stocks, spanking bench, gynecology chair, dance pole. The heaviest equipment is usually found here, and these places are often booked by a couple, or a small group of friends, for the whole night.

Dungeon hire by the hour

In the UK, "dungeon hire" usually means a play space rented for a few hours, often with no bed. If you want to sleep there, check that the booking includes the night.

Most searches start with a city: a kink hotel in London, a BDSM room near Manchester, dungeon hire in Birmingham, Leeds, Bristol or Glasgow. The list at the top of this page shows every stay we have verified in the UK, with its town and the gear installed. Britain is compact and well served by rail, so a stay a couple of hours away is easier to reach than it looks.

To see which one is closest to you, open the near me page or sort the list by "Nearest to me": your browser shares your position and every stay comes with its distance. You can also filter the UK stays by gear and price.

Words to search for

British hosts tend to say "dungeon hire", "play room", "fetish suite", "themed room" or "adults-only hotel" rather than "BDSM hotel". For the gear itself, look for "St Andrew's cross", "stocks", "spanking bench", "sex swing" and "bondage bed".

Kink stays are for adults only, and many ask for a photo ID at check-in. House rules on guests, noise and the use of the furniture are set by each host: read them before you confirm, especially if you are booking a house for a group. Prices change with the date and the day of the week, and Friday and Saturday nights usually cost the most.

Some stays are booked on the big platforms, others directly with the host, each with its own deposit and cancellation terms. The exact address is often sent only once you have booked. And if you host a kink-friendly room or house in the UK, tell us about it.